EKKISS..Finally, 21 ka ho gaya

3 days back, was my 21st Birthday. A Day is always awesome, if its ur birthday.... n its more than that, when u celebrate it with frndz or family...Everyone around me, i always find excited with joy n happiness 2 or 3 before their birthdays...

But i was not, the day when i found, it is going to be my birthday, I went into the state of insomnia for 3-4 days (these were days before my birthday). Though it is normal to turn 21. Everyboy on this planet who survives till he turns 21, attains the age of 21, then why was i tensed.

Actually, this tension was not mere tension of my birthday, nor about the party n expenditures... The tension was of about, I m growing mature n old. Though in this century, where a kid, who has not even attained puberty turns adult n behaves like one, i am not supposed to be tensed in attaining my maturity at the age of 21.

This fear, is a big time devil, It eats u up completely. Being a kid, is always fun... But being a human, we are always greedy having greed of no use... When we are kid, we wish to grow up n do things of our own choice. As we grow up, we find how beautiful our life was, when we were a kid. Being a kid, we have no responsibility, no lust, no greed, no tangles... The whole world is ours. Every other kid is our best friend, even when we know him only since 10 minutes. But as we grow up, life becomes hell.

This age 21(इक्कीस) meant a lot to me & especially when I don't even have my Driving license, when i can't drive a motor bike properly & there are lot much to do before attaining 21. Then I realized, It is not mere about attaining an age, it is all about understanding my responsibility, about achieving my goals, living my own dreams in my own way. Even if i had not done these many things till this age, I must understand & take responsibility to achieve it. Although it makes one tense, as the age grows up as the number of people taking interest in you decreases, the maturity starts reflecting up on ur face, Ur hairs starts growing GREY.

But,even then, one must realize attaining 21 is about getting all the rights, we must have as an individual n that too legally. Showing up this world, that i m someone, as an individual. someone, who is not just any other person, but special one...

This thought made me happy... n I finally, moved towards my birthday, happily, with the thought achieving my aim of Proving myself...

N on my birthday.... Ekkiss......finally, 21 ka ho gaya

Theories on Homosexuality

Below is A nice video which include all the theories about "How a man/woman becomes Gay/lesbian.....

It includes all theories except one......of sigmund freud, which gives law of universal bisexuality

He says, all the children in their childhood are bisexual, depending upon their experiences in childhood or puberty, they become Gay, bi or straight..

A must see video

Lizzie McGuire.....Story of every Teenager

It was a TV series by Stan Rogow, about the teenage life of a school girl "Lizzie McGuire"(Played by Hilary Duff).

Lizzie McGuire was a ordinary girl, who is going through the phase of teenage, suffering from teenage problems, Searching for aim of her life, Neither Very famous nor very intelligent not even Beauty queen....But sweet lovable & Confused like other ordinary teenagers... which made every teenager to link it to their life.

I loved this show a lot & my friendz too who watched this show in their teenage. We all feel that it described the feeling of a teenager in best possible way.

This show was a wonder, but it was totally incomplete without a few more characters in it...Her two best buddies, Gordo & Miranda. Her Brother Matt, Her Parents:Jo McGuire(Dad) & Sam McGuire(Mom). Ethan Craft:School's Most handsome boy & Kate Sanders:Cheer Leader Captain of her school.

With her best buddies........Gordo & Miranda, the show just made its way....

Gordo is Lizzie's best friend since they were two days old. He usually offers sarcasm and good advice. He is portrayed as being very intelligent and always got good grades but even though he always stands second in class, that's why he always feel competent against class topper & school dork Larry Tougeman.

Miranda is the most self-conscious of the three, but Lizzie and Gordo always see through her crisis. She shares the crush of Lizzie on Ethan Craft & hatred toward Kate Sanders. Miranda & Lizzie also shares feelings of girlhood(G-Talk).

These three characters showed the aspects of friendship & also explained what true friends are & Friendship really mean.

Watching them fighting with problems, heping & supporting each other & especially when they make a group call...everything was awesome.

Matt: Lizzie always finds him to be quiet irritating & keep on fighting with him all the time. But love him the most at the same time.

She thinks her parents love his brother more than what they do to Lizzie. & feels that they don't give her freedom. She always remain confused with their behavious like other teenagers.

Ethan Craft: Lizzie, Miranda & other girls of school has crush on him. Though he is not very bright but very friendly & kind. Lizzie always wants to be with him, but at the end of the day, she finds her friends to be much more important than her crush.

Kate is School's most popular, talented & arrogant girl. She is Lizzie's Enemy. She Enjoys making Lizzie's life miserable but Lizzie, with the help of her friends & brother manages to outsmart Kate & come on top

Last but not the least. Toon Lizzie... is a character without which the show can not be called complete. She is the one, who tells viewers what is going on in Lizzie's mind.

During the 65 episode series of Lizzie McGuire, this show has given a lot much more than just entertainment:

#It gave a way to face teenage problems.

#It was like a friend when u feel everyone aroung is against u.

#it showed that u r not the only one who faces these teenage problems.

# It was like, i m watching myself in the form of lizzie on show, facing trobles, finding my way out & so much confused.

Ending it up with the title track of Lizzie McGuire. Dedicated to all the teenagers...........

Namaste London......

It was a wonderful movie.....directed by Vipul Shah, written by suresh Nair...... with Katrina kaif & Akshay Kumar (actors) in the lead role....

It was very much appreciated film of the year 2007. It was supported for the issues it has taken. Especially patriotism n Religion.

Guys, May be the movie is awesome as it has taken care of a wonderful issue of patriotism, but it has also opened another issue of mentality of we indians. Don't u think, forcing a kid by his parents to follow any religion or to go for marriage is not wrong........ & we can't blame others, as we ourselves r responsible for such cause. Its our indian mentality, we still do force our kids to follow our religion, marry to the guy/gal of our own chioce, irrespective of their will...

When a gal, born in Britain, grown up in british culture, completing her education their wants to lead her life as britisher, why ain't she is allowed to do so?

Don't u think Guys, the Indian saying of " Jaisa desh Waisa bhes" has been limited to words.......N whoever follows it, is considered as unpatriotic........ What i know is the Indian Culture never asked a person to make others follow any religion forcefully.......... Even our constitution do not permit it........

There are lot many examples around us, We expect Sonia Gandhi, President of Indian National Congress, n a citizen of India to follow our customs n rituals, as now she is an Indian, not an Italian now.....then why a girl, whose parents are Indian but has got the citizenship of britain shouldn't follow customs of britishers????

We have become modern in the sense of dressings, technology n financial matters, but not in the case of our religion, customs, rituals & especially mentality........We still live in a society where living in one's own way is considered a crime....... & talking on this issue is still a taboo.

A women is burned, made nude or even raped if she try to change the society n make it modern n open-minded.......

Coming to the pointt I agree, Jaswinder(Katrina Kaif) in the movie has not done right by cheating upon her husband, but don't u think, somewhere or most importantly it was mistake of her parents....... If they wouldn't have forced her for marriage, she wouldn't have done anything wrong with the character played by Akshay Kumar(I don't remeber his name in the movie).

I agree, parents can never even think for bad their kids but What if they r wrong, afterall they r human, they can be wrong.......

It was all what I have to say.......Now i leave it upto you, what what do u think is right or wrong.......

Celibacy, the Pathway to GOD . . . . . . . IS IT???

Celibacy, by definition, is the lifestyle of someone, who choses to abstain sexual activity throughout his/her life.

It has been followed by many people who want to lead their life in search of for the pathway to GOD. We call these people as "Sanyasi/Swamiji/Mahatma".

Though this lifestyle is meant for only those who are unmarried, however, it has been followed by people who r married, as many people after their marriage realise that they r not meant for living in a marriage & then they start living life of a celibate, leaving behind their married life n wife. For such women, in our society, we have a special place......We call them as "Parityakta" & leave them to live for death....

Now, coming to the main point.......What i want to askis

guys, do u think is Celibacy, the only way to reach GOD. Can't it be achieved living with your family, leading a happy married life????

God has given us life n their are various aspects of it......Out of which sexual desire is one & very important. Now its our duty to live our life enjoying the beauty of it......But, why do we consider sex as a bad activity????

Many of Swamiji's give the preaching of " Sex to continue family". They say,"the only reason why we have sex is to produce sons that will carry on our family names".

Do u think their preachings are correct, if yes, why did god Gave us sexual organs......Why do we feel sexual desire towards another man/woman....

Choosing one's own life is his/her will.....we are no one to judge, whether an activity is correct or not.......But before leaving their house, why don't they think of about people who r somehow depended on them...

Atlast, I would only say, Life is beautiful, Live it or destroy it......Its in ur hand.....But don't let others suffer for ur choice